Jada Pinkett Smith is the source of manipulation in her family... A lesson to all

Having manipulated her daughter's mind, the latter wrote a "letter to Tupac in his grave", wishing he were alive to this day in order to make her mom happy and they be together. How could a girl who wasn't even born when Tupac died come up with such a letter? Jada's manipulation!

Jada manipulated her son by getting "emotionally entangled" (cheated) with her son's friend in a very vulnerable moment just to feel good. Does anyone find it wierd when she said she slept with her son's best friend to help him with his mental health issues while her husband was having his own mental health crisis?

Sadly, Will Smith spent 3 years (and who knows how much money was involved) planning Jada's 40th birthday just to prove that he could be just as a good a husband as she would imagine Tupac would be, and instead of saying "thank you", she insulted him and threw it in his face that it was Will's display of his own ego.

She sold out her family secret for content and Facebook ad revenue... Literally, Will was begging his wife (in the recent viral video she made) to stop exposing him in his own home for content (for he was obviously uncomfortable), and she continues to record and humiliate him, rendering his act as foolishness.

Should I emphasize that Jada manipulated Will Smith by getting him to sabotage his career just to prove he's worthy of her attention? Jada is manipulating Will because she knows that he loves her and would do anything for her approval to the extent that if there was a puddle on the ground, Will would get on his knees, stab himself on his chest so that she could walk over his back!

Everytime he does something extreme to get her approval, she doesn't give it to him, and then she throws him under the bus. Slapping the man he knew for 30 years was apparently done for Jada's approval, she didn't give it to him, and then she threw him under the bus; a few days later she came out and said that her husband was in the wrong for slapping Chris Rock because she's a strong independent woman that doesn't need to be protected by a man. And what makes it so ironic is that millions of people (mostly women) were defending what Will Smith did by saying that he did it to protect his wife. This man who gets approval from millions of people "across the world" can't even get the same approval from the very person he did it for, who means the "world" to him.

In my own opinion, Will Smith is one of the greatest "ACTORS" in history! What people don't understand about great actors is that over the course of their career, they could try hundreds of different personalities/characters and if they're really good at it, sometimes they could lose themselves. I personally believe that Will Smith has lost himself and he's trying in different characters to find out which one could get Jada's approval. 

Now, why would Will Smith go to the extreme in defending a woman who would never do the same to him? He's sacrificing his career for those who don't even appreciate it but rather uses him to gain cheap popularity. This 10 years Oscars ban should teach him a lot of lesson! 

I'm not an advocate of divorce... In this case Will Smith (for the sake of his sanity) should have a deep rethink of his relationship with Jada, and possibly run for his dear life. If he could divorce his previous wife just to be with Jada, then he should seek for space at this crucial time to examine if he could go on with this relationship, for the sake of his mental health. Apparently, he's damn broken. 

And let this be a lesson for all the good dudes and ladies out there. Dudes that are not thugs, nice dudes that are trying to do the right thing... If you're doing something for a woman/man (especially when you're courting or dating), and he/she doesn't appreciate nor reciprocate the value, then go find somebody that appreciates you and what you do for them in time before you eventually tie the knot, in order to avoid a manipulated marriage. The period of courtship should help you evaluate better what you're stepping into. Do not fall into the temptation of "I will change him when we're married" or "she would change as time goes on in the marriage". If they cannot change before marriage, THEN DON'T RISK IT

Shalom! 

Fr. Chinaka Justin Mbaeri, OSJ 

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